Seduction Techniques

Guide for obtaining and carrying out the first date

Have you hooked a girl, you got the phone number or ID and you are in front of the first date. Many guys who are good to know they hooked here. And others are not too good at hang have a very good percentage of success the first time. Why is this happening? And how to avoid failure at the first meeting?

I will begin with preparation for the first time, namely that the telephone conversation, or the mess in which you will invite them to see you.

I do not believe in rules that tell you how fast you talk to a girl on the phone / mess after you hooked it. We talked and after I hooked it, and I talked to a month after. This depends very much on the connection that was created between you and that girl. Enjoy this time on your hands intuition.

I personally prefer to take their ID first, because:
- Agat more net (or social circle where everything okay ID il take first)
- Give the girls ID easier than the telephone number,
- Can create rapport quickly and lead to discussion of sexual issues

So start with conversation mess, which usually lasts 15-20-30 min.
Basic ideas: be witty and spontaneous. Do you rada but pressing and diverse sexual aluzii. Sometimes take a little and to cool (or give him some neg-ROMs, but only if the type of girlwith fat boy ego pump with how to get validation from the male in heat). A woman does not feel real woman until you get a pic of her.
Do a bit of casual conversation (fluff talk) and invite her somewhere directly, preferably in the same day, or up the day before. It would be nice to be something like “come in an hour instead of X ‘for more spontaneity.

Do not ask if he has time or not to see you. Instinctively, when a person (male or female) is asked if he has time, will start going to defend all the reasons why you may not have the time and then it is possible to say that it does not.
If you feel that the person is busy and give an alternative: “See you on Tuesday or Thursday from 18 to 20:30?
If you can not say when did you finish the conversation you suggested and after a few days back.

After establishing that we see I take the phone for verification. The phone is not required before, as otherwise you risk stretches too much mess.
Be direct.

Important:
- If you see that girl’s online but you do not respond or is not available or not you answer the phone does not insist sucked. Once in two days is more than insisting that you will.
If not me my answer today, like Monday, when a call Wednesday. If you do not answer a call in a week.

Phone:
- If you talk to her on the phone trying to smile and enjoy talking to her. Believe me, it feels, and makes a big difference.

- Ideas for the mess in conversation are the same when talking on the phone, indicating that we should be more concise (a few minutes maximum).

Returning to the invitation, saying that if you take it too fast, tell him that you like wasting your time on the phone or mess and or a person can be known only in truly reality.
If you ask “why do you want to see me?”, Tell her you want to do because you’re an interesting person and want to know better, or you want to have a pleasant conversation with a person interesting, or something like that. Not say (or give in to it directly) that you are sexually attracted to her, you want to have a relationship with her, you’re excited to see again, etc..

Okay, you set the date. Now everything comes in a straight line.

Confirmation

I usually at the beginning gave her a call a second time before, to ensure that not flake. Now you no longer give because I have not had any situation like this. All are at Target. You, however, especially if you’re in the beginning, it’s good to check.
If you do not answer the phone, you restively not call 100 times. You called once and they still going to them on your phone, meaning I know you called her. If you do not answer, nor do you give a message to you say it’s caught in a meeting or something, giving the date.
May I call after a few days and calls again, without you get to hold them accountable for the last time.

Reasons for not coming to your data with you may be following, or a combination of them:
- Is a spoiled child who has not respect for the others and tends to take everything in May joke. I know I should be responsabilizata, but not a good idea to do this when you no you have not seen her. You will have enough time to do that later.
- This behavior by testing you, he wants to see if you’re a man, if you master you and your emotions. Whatever the reasons they do not grab you now to hold them accountable. Be tactful. Can you possibly say to you today sure to know if he can come to you loaded a program and you do not want you wasting your time sucked. Tell that to a smiling tone, free to give the suspect that he very much affected but the situation never let go like nothing would have happened. If this time comes not quit.
If your data before you give a message or phone and tells you that for one reason or another can not see it you ii answer “ok, no problem, we hear another time”

Held

Dressing the code should be something like smart casual, and depending on where you see her. Avoid tinutele sport and those too elegant (except for the case that going to a theater or a luxurious restaurant. But these data are generally more rare around age 20 years).
Important: Women are very influenced by the olfactory sense. An investment in a good perfume, that you and match - for example a guy more seriously and will not match a fresh scent, citrus-based, as one crazier not to match a scent difficult - certainly worth its money. Be careful though not to exaggerate it. Fas a maximum two’s all you need.

First contact

I generally go with a few minutes late. Gives you an easy advantage psychologically. Plus I do not like to wait for women. If it is more 15-minute run. My time is important.
You finally got the data. The first impression is very important and she should see in you a man with a lot of trust. Look her in the eye as you near her, give her hand or kissing her on the cheek (well, me and them kissing on the mouth directly, but this is for advanced)

Then take her hand or put her hand on the back, between the scapula, below or above the jeans and show them the direction to go. This is usually first kino like you do. I like to never say no matter where we dwell and to guide me for the pleasure … you get the hand, make them get back them orient the head in the right direction (even if often scold me after this stage, I know that I like)
The idea is that the man must lead.
No discussion!

How about holding hands, I like this practice, at least with the type of girl most romantic. So in general they take before hand to get where you, or the pretext that I want to show the direction of travel, or direct. The only thing is that it would be good to avoid a young hand “boring”, ie one in which you always the same. May collect a more play back with her hand, you keep it a finger, etc..

Location data map

I see he insisted that the community should do something special in the first date. I do not believe in that. I think that personality and the person you first are those that define a managed data, regardless of location. But be that your personality and conversational skills are really successful.
If you insist too much on the possible location to impress, but if you think humans do not wake up some feelings all for nothing.

Here we have news for you bad (or good, depending on how look) attractive personality and skill conversational (in case you’re not born with them) develop only with experience.

As locations, I prefer the cafes / terraces and park. I love that I can to speak with them and I can do kino, without all that make too much effort.
If you are too active or want something special you can go cycling / rolls, to go with the car / engine in a May special location outside the city, you can get on a train with a destination at random (or in the subway / bus), you can go into a cemetery, to go to a concert in a club (though less pointed), a high block, at her home on the curb looking out along the past and trying to give out what they think etc etc..
If you fire a more elitist, you can go to a theater, in a restaurant or a luxurious exhibition of art.

Notice how I avoided saying anything to the film. The film is not indicated for the first date (for me) because you do not like to interact, to communicate with her. Can you do something kino but it seems forced and very very used already.
Also, avoid going to malls to meetings (at least at first). Looks kitsch.

Now develop the subject a bit out of the usual places:

1. Cafes / terraces:

- If a girl is normal (as Fitz level) is taken in a cafe by Fitz (because I like that one thousand). As an exception, go to cheaper locations when girls are students with low budget and do not want to put in a position jenanta. But usually walking around with girls who have some money.
- If Fitz is a lead in a student café or park in the bank. I mean where there is ordinary.

Coffee should be chosen before you need to know in advance. If it’s busy you do a reservation in advance. It’s kind of weird to go with the girl for you and 3 places you can not stay anywhere.
Avoid cafes where you can not just sit on opposite sides of the table. It’s a bad idea because you can not do kino, start a conversation was like an interview and you will both feel strange.
Plus  psychologically  sit in font face induces a feeling of aggression in companion who will feel, instinctual need to get far away.
So choose a cafe where seats can be made to each other. If you do not have something … wait a bit on the opposite side of the table and then move up on the same side with her.
Important:
not pay them and the (maybe even if opportunities are not material). It is assumed that they did take at least as much pleasure as the tie meeting between you two. In addition to that most girls (over 22 years at least) work, so I have money.
You are not nor will you offer to be her sponsor.
If you see that are not going to take money ii say something like: “I will buy now, but next is your turn and smile easily.

2. Parks

I prefer them because they do not have money, you move, you ‘re partially saved if you do not Friday conversation topics (what beautiful weather … there ’s one-cart as you get in there … that those two girls who walks hand are together … you are lovely child that girl, you like kids? what you have, boy or girl? (this child is a subject forever talking) … a look that small child fall on bicycle - fall, fall, let me know you, etc.). You can sit on the bank near her and at the end if you know what you do and leave at night, you can do sex with her and there

Effective Meeting

Like something out with a girl after a first meeting should be to create two things simultaneously between the two of you:
- Connection emotional conversation, but
- Sexual Atractie

If you create only one connection in LJBF you, I mean I see you as a friend.
If there is only sexual attraction, again is not too good, except for special cases unocr, sex in the first (and it must very much that), not one you can go on.
To take place:

Emotional connection

It is created when you do it to open in front of you when you do to become involved in emotional discussion. Important to do it live on your emotions. And you are being a good story teller and alternating emotions (joy, failure, love, anxiety, success, hate, relaxation, optimism, anger, etc.)
I personally do not have stories or routines that use them every time has to do what I said above they are naturally and according to me. Neparat If you wish, you can search on google or as great stories and how you can do to be a good narrator. Or you can create you stories. Important is to get involved in the first place you in them, as would happen near you, and do it on her part, to feel the same.

For example:
If it is romantic like I can talk about how beautiful it was in Vienna for New Year’s Eve and how I would like to go to Prague and that is the most romantic city in Europe, with beautiful architecture and welcoming people and love over All Christmas and how I want to spend it in Salzburg for the city has a very special feeling in that time etc..
You understand you point.
Important thing to do to feel my emotions and I wonder where he wants to go, what i would love to make her dreams. With such a girl matters less to do rada sa lot to do but to engage emotionally and kino do most delicate, but steadily.

If party girl type ii normally say where we were, as I have never fun, tell about some great adventure in May that we had and make her turn to tell me in some way, emphasize more fun side, give an indication that we have great social circle, with a mean that can get everyone to have fun, make it more rada, kino is more aggressive but less consistently and without romantic elements ( such as holding hands).

If pitzi (or a girl very socially validated) I take her on this, introducing more neg-mails in conversation, humor in difficult, take more than a foot, make an aggressive push and pull on it (ie make a kino May lejer more in play, after I retire, overall, try to leave the impression that I’m not too concerned after the break the pace and suddenly become very close to the right by kino and less of words)

Conversation

A successful conversation should be a fun and dynamic. Tell funny stories, just a little fun with it, but you (it is a proof of maturity and confidence in oneself thing and girls like them). Change of topics, go to work trips to and from the sex dreams.

Useful things to remember here:
- Must be careful not to talk too much and not get when you see she’s not interested, this is a trap that many fall. Another would be to just let her talk. In any of these two situations, write yourself FRIEND.

- No need to confinement with the former, or to slander (this in any way)

- Try to avoid as they can from her monosyllabic answers, which give an air of the whole interview your interactions. Ask him some questions that stumuleze to respond with phrases.

- Avoid questions boring and too common kind of music you listen to that work, where have you gone in the past weekend / on holiday etc.. . Tell her instead that you have been to a concert of the one of your favorite formations and how do you felt in there, what you do and how excited you are of what you are doing (without praise you without sense), what plans you have related to your job, what would you fun, what was cool and what you gonna do for next / e etc.. I intervene in the natural conversation you say what about and she

- Do not try to look what you are not. Not say (or give the impression in itself) you have more money, you’re more fun than you are in reality, or more seriously, you have more friends, you have some great sexual performance, you had sex with women bully or that you’re Gigi rumble. These are pitfalls that usually falls. Women appreciate a mysterious, because they do put their questions about it and so are intipareasca quickly to mind.

- A funny conversation you can make it close. But to prevent you from joke in joke. A to leave the impression of frivolity or clown, and both lead to the state bud.

- Do not brag with AS. Could possibly to give subtle clues that you are good at feminine psychology. For example you can say to something like “women invest more in a potential partner, and that are more reluctant to jump into bed with the first coolest guy you see. They look for other qualities. You have many examples of seduction theory on which you pressed them subtly in conversation, thus indirectly giving it the impression of an experience with women in the back (and they all would say, appreciate it. I appreciate only when you confinement with this thing)

- I apologize in front of her. If you have something wrong or said something that has not come good, not excuses to start in right and left. It’s tough. Keep it yours and believe me they will appreciate this more if you back as soon as look at you ugly

- Do not enter the discussion when it is in the middle of what is said that no matter how interesting is what you said (maybe only if it is a joke about how tough to say in a moment). Show lack of respect and is annoying to be interrupted everything. A mania that had me and I’m not relieved until I drew attention several times by yelling some more balls.

- If you come across any pitzi avoid topics related to Bamboo Ferraris Bmw money sponsors. I noticed that pitzi instinctively seek validation and you will begin to say how they were denied some of Bentley, as they look after everyone in Bamboo ass their way has given an ‘apartment and stuff in the genre. Not notice. Even if they are real, you do not care. It is there because he likes you (even if you do want to believe otherwise) not because he wants money from you. But she wants to test, or even has an opinion about it pretty bad and then you will feel the need to validate that you not stay in your perceived value (this especially if you know how to pick)
- Not only praise for her physical appearance (you’re beautiful, you have stunning eyes, etc.). Lauda qualities for a range of intellect or her style (her details below this part)

Attraction:

Well here we have two bad news and a good
The first bad news is that the attraction can not be created. It is based on chemical reactions that are induced in the subconscious. So it is either attracted to you or not, and will know right from the first seconds of interaction with the variant that you e.
Good part is that she is attracted to you if he came to the meeting.
Bad part, again, is that if you do not do something to stimulate the attraction, it will disappear. And how you do that? Through conversation and especially by kino.

1. Conversational:

Pressing here and there various aluzii sexual teasing, I can understand indirectly what do you know, but I confinement with sexual performance. So what are usually those who do not have this performance.
You can bring the discussion about sex and to tell something like that “I know 6 women out of 10 if they squirteaza from someone who knows how to help them do it” or “women have a sexual side developed as a male” Examples are many. You again have the theoretical data on the site for statements like that. And after it will ask how do you know these things, you do not answer and I get an easy … suras ii say “I saw it on discovery or something … The idea that you should remember is to give you subtle clues on the (alleged) experience that you have, but not confinement or tell them directly. And you do not talk too much here. You’re not obsessed with any sex (at least not at first meeting)
Change the subject and then get back to it later if you did not get to kiss you in the event that are not pointless.

2. Kino

Kino is one of the main ingredintele for a managed data. If you miss a farewell sex here.

It is vital here (it is important throughout the interaction between you, but this is vital) to have faith in you. Not to scare you why I say if you kiss her. Or rubbing the breasts. For this you need some experience in data-sites. If not then you just do without and simpu you think about this as you did the first approach.

Kino starts as I said above since the beginning of the data (of a hand, touch the back, etc.)

Suppose that the time you sat down somewhere and have the opportunity now to continue.
Look at the beady earrings or her play with them or her, after which there get your hands on the area (eg one can easily by rubbing and ear to ear after you hair or start to play with her hair ).
Me I just like to play with all zorzonelele from them and especially my hand walking through their hair and do it since the first moments in which one can physically do that (that is right after we sat down somewhere).
I look at their nails (good opportunity to pick the hand) and see what asorteaza, because we need to go with something. If they say french but I love it and appreciate that a girl who care.
Important:
In general, do remember to style her for combinations of clothes and accessories and body care (which you seem smooth, fine leather that etc). Women just love to be love for the things above. After all, spend a lot of time and give a lot of money on all kinds of clothes that match as well and to be more in fashion, all kinds of cosmetic treatments, and other nonsense zorzonele menti to do in May good for us, male, and most men just because they see big tits ….
You do not
Bonus: if you see earrings or a fashion item in a color that is not listed on it can fall into a meditation and care to tell you’re intrigued by what is asorteaza them, there must be something on it of the same color. And you bet the chicks know what is … and you like to see what asortata sta …

After achieving a used ta you to get your hands on my leg where he draw geometric shapes, or simply rubbing one (preferably from the knees towards basin, for bringing more blood in the pelvis area)
Bonus: at a time can make a remark like “you’re hot: D” referring to a clear area near “sensitive”
But do not abuse the kino. In general, you do what you do after you retire a little. Become usor remotely. Then while you do. That for best results

3. Kiss

Let’s return: the hand on the leg can move on to different things you whisper in your ear or you can go directly to kiss. Not me I was wrong to refuse a kiss to (with one exception) after I made in advance kino on her leg.

The first kiss is better to be faster then continue conversation. Again, you do not want to feel desperate.

Then stay a little fluff … talk, kino and kiss it with language and everything you need.
Important:
It is essential to know how to kiss well if you want to get away with it quickly, and actually if you want to get on with her point. Wed one I really like to kiss and it seems that following feedback received and how they like their kiss, so here I have some great plus points.
If you do not know how to do, or think you kiss well, out with a girl till you catch what about and tell them what you say and do is kiss on how (in general is not good to ask anything about how They felt it when you kissed or had sex with because they give proof of insecurity, but here you’ll make an exception, as not otherwise learn)

After you kissed it can start on a rubbing breasts, especially in the area around the nipples or advance hand in your pants or skirt as the sensitive point.
Even if it is possible to intamplini a slight holding back, do a break after the load again. Only if the categorically against it easy.
Important:
It is very exciting for a girl to kiss passionately, or to know that your hand a meet somewhere in the middle of a room full of people. Be discreet, do not need to attract unnecessary attention, but tupeist. Here, most guys I know because I am shy of desul not have the guts to do something in this sense.
Okay, here it should be clear. If you can you can go with her somewhere in your home (or you can have sex with her in the park if the interaction takes place there).
Again though, you need guts.
As motivation to go to your home (or she or a friend or whatever) to tell you “let’s go into a place withdrawn” It usually will have something to comment, but a bit stressed. If you’re hand in her panties and definitely wants it, but psychological barriers that make it resist. You must insist with diplomacy.
If you do this and she wants you then suddenly receding her a kiss and closed the meeting.

Very important:

In general men are desperate for sex. If they present an opportunity to make sex will do everything possible to take advantage of it. Because they think they will not soon have another chance, because they are attracted primarily by the quantity (diversity) and that can not master hormones.
Women do not like that. Allow women to refuse sex to a game (even if they do much more like a game of sex than nine). Because I know I can get another easy game, that can master better and that quality will not quantity. Ir you must prove you can deliver quality.
Such women were awakened by a redoubtable weapon in the fight with the opposite sex, a weapon they use with a lot of guile and rarely fail.
With small exceptions. I’m including it.

I personally prefer to leave both at home unsatisfied than whatever it was pathetic sex.
Because if you draw too much from her for sex when she won that one (even if it gives me). And know that I can have anytime and anyway she wants.
So if you give more than a girl who is playing with me incitandu me but knowing that they themselves are not going to have sex with me too fast, you and I are the same, and more.
A tickle the white sail until after the leave.
And believe me: for a girl to be horny and unsatisfied is as bad as a man.
OKI, here we are already advanced. You, if you are beginner, you probably stop somewhere on the kiss.

Length of data

A simple data neurmat things more … depth … should not take more than two hours. If you wait too long (especially if you have not kissed a) it is possible to give the impression of friendliness.
It would be good if you establish when to leave. Or if one time during the data look a bit to watch, but things are not decisive for the success of data

After the data will Break somewhere around here and everyone go to his house.
I, with very rare exceptions, do not drive home. Maybe you just stay close (I like to walk). Driving your car or home until there is no question.

Well, that was about the first date. Information from him we have obtained only in the experience in terms of my first meeting. So I hope you will use it.
Although, remember, no substitute for experience!

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